An Important Note Before We Begin...
This blog post is NOT about crossdressing, nor is its intent is to discuss even elements of crossdressing. This is about males simply wearing skirts and dresses, and/or feminine heels.Skirts and Heels for Males at a Glance
Why should girls have all the fun with skirts and heels? Can't a boy dress up in skirts and/or heels if he wants to? Let me set the mood with a picture or two:
^ from: (Pinterest - best I could find) - Can skirts/dresses and heels be a reality for male fashion any time soon? I offer my thoughts in this post.
One of my inspirations for blogging about this topic was someone who I came across on LOOKBOOK who nicely shown off wearing a skirt and some stylish heeled shoes. This individual was a fellow who ultimately would transition into a female. During this person's male days, this individual would nicely wear a skirt and pumps handsomely. For a guy, this person even had feminine lovely legs for a guy. Then when this person transitioned into a female, this person only became lovelier. (As a side note, that individual I made mention of is NOT the one I featured in the post to open this section.). Before becoming YouTube star "GiGiGorgeous," GREGORYGorgeous famously wore sexy feminine clothing before transitioning to GiGi. So it is surely possible for a male to look just as good in a skirt (or even a dress) and some heeled shoes.
Thing is, most of us males would rather chase skirts rather than wear them. Very often us males are aroused at the image of a preferably young lady in an appealing dress or skirt paired with some high heel footwear. Some designers have even tried to make skirts and/or dresses for males a thing. I usually think of the likes of Jean Paul Gaultier in this regard. Male celebrities such as Jaden Smith have worn skirts or dresses. I remember a fashion blogger to a blog once called "His Black Dress" which featured a man who mostly wore dresses and skirts rather than "man clothes." There was a fashionable male who wore some feminine pieces, even including a long jean skirt and some chunky heel loafers. So the interest is there for those males who dare showcase themselves in feminine type clothing. Trouble is, feminine style for males has yet to be accepted by a broader audience, including among us males.
There are other components towards skirts/dresses and heels being acceptable- the gender fluid crowd. Some males do not identify as males. Some males identify as female or even not as any specific gender. In LGBT speak, we have fitting terms to describe people such as (the names vary, but I will use this one) gender fluid to describe those who do not identify sexually by their birth gender. Another barrier of skirts/dresses and heels for males is various religious connotations. One verse in the Holy Bible mostly states it a violation for a male to dress up in a feminine way or with feminine clothing. But as we all know, fashion offers people the opportunity to express themselves any way they choose regardless of social or religious norms.
Even though I did mention males in regards to crossdressing, there are some male-to-female crossdressers who do not want to have surgery or anything to become proper transsexuals. So males wearing skirts doesn't automatically make you gay.
Skirts and Heels for Men: Why Bother?
I will try to make a case for both of these items.
Why Skirts for Males?
For one thing, it is refreshing to wear something that doesn't grab your crotch so hard. Skirts and dresses are liberating in this regard. The only skirts that seem acceptable are often kilts. While there is nothing wrong with kilts, some males into wearing almost any kind of skirt would want to feel as free to wear a basic skirt as almost any female. That would even include males who would wear (for example) a floral skirt or any skirt that has elements like ruffles or slits. Now some people would probably ask, "why would a heterosexual male want to wear something very feminine like a girly skirt?" Likewise, someone would ask why a female would want to dress up like a male. This goes back the double standard of fashion freedom.I kind of lead into a reason why skirts are not as accepted among males- gender roles. Also, it goes back to fashion freedom. A male trying to dress up in a feminine way is often accused of crossdressing. A female trying to dress a lot masculine like is rarely accused or hated for looking boyish. Because of this, it can be damaging for a male to want to be happy wearing feminine type clothing, especially skirts/dresses and any sort of feminine heels. Considering how liberating it can be to wear a skirt or a dress, the fear is that wearing a skirt or a dress will soften a male's man status.
Why Heels for Males?
Males would rather see females in high heels rather than wear them. High heels can possibly help posture with males much like they can with females. The same argument in regards to skirts and dresses for males also can apply to males in high heels. Many others feel high heels for males are exclusively for male-to-female crossdressers or drag queens rather than the average male. One time, I saw pictures of Cuban heel shoes worn by males. I grant you these were not overly feminine heels, but they are some decent-height heels that were stylish for males to wear as they probably are for females. Footwear with feminine style heels can help elevate and enhance the beauty of items like skirts and dresses.I think these are good arguments for both items. What say you?
Skirts and Heels for Males: Video Insight
I found a couple of videos offering some unique perspective in regards to skirts and heels. So check these out to see how males would feel trying to wear either or both of the aforementioned items in this blog post.
Skirts and Heels for Males: Skirt Insight.
If you want a little insight on males trying skirts, I have found this video for you:^ "Men Wear Skirts for a Week"
Skirts and Heels for Males: Heels Insight.
Now for guys in heels. Can these males handle a sassy pair of feminine shoes? Find out:^ "Guys Wear Heels For the First Time"
So now you know about these items and males in them. Now what about options for such stylish males? Please read the next section.
Skirts and Heels for Males: Options?
If one wants to try out wearing skirts or feminine heels, you can't immediately go towards the sexiest skirts and dresses paired with some foxy feminine heels. Also, you can be sure that you will probably look all kinds of awkward as a male trying to wear some feminine pieces. You will surely need to take baby steps.
For Starters...
While not proper skirts, a skort is a good start for wanting to wear skirts. The biggest positive to skorts is that you remain covered while still enjoying the appeal of wearing a skirt. Since a lot of skorts can be scandalously short, there is quite a bit of sex appeal showing off lots of leg. Of course, you're covered. Skorts are not just for active-type fashions. Skorts are often times common skirts to wear for active functions. They are even common as school uniform outfits for those who want skirt looks while still being covered. So don't be ashamed to wear a skort.If you prefer dresses, try rompers/playsuits; and no, I am NOT talking about those "RompHim" rompers. Some rompers can appear as very sexy mini dresses. Fashionistas may often times wear feminine dresses as well as rompers. So you can go with rompers or try some more proper dresses. And as always- you're covered!
Should you not be as confident with feminine skirts, there are always kilts.
Now onto the feminine heels. High heels are obviously the omega for any fashionable type, but feminine heels can also pertain to low heels and even kitten heels. It is perhaps best to start with some relatively low wedge heels. Wedges are often seen as comfortable while also being very feminine. Don't graduate to the high heels until you're fairly confident sporting a pair of basic feminine heels first and foremost.
Do you prefer tights or hosiery? It is very okay to go with tights if it is too cold or if you are not confident enough baring your legs. Some who are already confident enough going bare legs and bare feet wear tights anyways. However, if you are not confident at all, go with tights. Alternatively, leggings will serve you well.
I kind of led up to it, but...
The Next Level...
So you managed to find a skirt (or dress) and some feminine heels to wear? What's next?I think the safest skirts or dresses you can wear would be maxi skirts and maxi dresses. These can be very feminine and safe if you do not wish to show off legs. You could try midi skirts and midi dresses if you want something a bit more feminine while also showing your legs (but not a lot of leg) and feet. If you are feeling foxy, by all means, go for skirts and dresses above the knees. Even dare mini skirts and mini dresses! It is more comfortable to go with loose and flared skirts and dresses. But if you're feeling hot, go with more form-fitting skirts and dresses (such as pencil skirts and bodycon dresses).
Try some higher heel feminine footwear if you feel ready to try heels. Heel type doesn't really matter. There are equally lovely high heel shoes ranging from stiletto heels to various wedge heels. Your footwear choices for feminine heels will vary. Go with a sweet pair of pumps if you wish. Try a handful of feminine high-heel sandals also. You can also go with feminine boots or booties. Surely go with tall boots if it's cool or cold. If stiletto or spike heels are too much, there are feminine block heels you can go with. If you are thinking of more spicy footwear, go with some peep-toe feminine shoes or some slingback feminine shoes. Your feminine footwear choices all depends on your sense of style.
Before I delve into Final Thoughts, there are a few considerations to note.
Skirts and Heels for Males: Special Considerations
Here are a few considerations for skirts/dresses and heels.
• One thing to keep in mind in regards to skirts and dresses is to consider the form and fit of the skirt. Be sure to go with skirts/dresses that suit your style and that you are most comfortable wearing. Don't try anything too feminine for you or that you are not confident enough to wear.
• You may even want to consider certain underwear to feel more comfortable wearing such skirts/dresses. Remember- wearing skirts and dresses offer those potential of those discomforting peek-up-skirt moments. You do still want to go with more comfy underwear even while sporting the most feminine of skirts and/or dresses. So look at maybe some briefs rather than boxers (unless you are a male who doesn't wear boxers).
• What about some heel considerations? Some of us males have some fairly large feet, so they may not be able to properly fit into some feminine shoes. A rule of thumb most make is to go two women's sizes up (at least with US footwear sizes). The best thing you can do footwear-wise is to experiment with different feminine footwear sizes to find out what you could most comfortably fit in. If you can't find proper footwear in a women's size that you can fit in, you may need to find certain shoes online that may more properly suit your feet.
I will now try to end this one properly.
Skirts/Dresses and Heels for Males: Final Thoughts
Many people, even males, will think skirts/dresses and feminine heels are taboo for males. But for those who want to be fashionable, skirts and heels can offer more fashion choices for males. Skirts and heels can be made to be stylish for males as much as they have been feminine fashion staples. Thanks to social norms, gender roles, and overall general opinions in regards to skirts and heels for males; such fashion items will never become a reality for males unless someone can truly convince males to wear such fashion items. This is even though males have worn skirts and heels for MUCH longer before females have them as feminine staples.
Skirts and dresses can be liberating to wear. If a male wants to wear these items, he should be able to properly wear them with no fear of being seen as a crossdresser or being downgraded as a male. Even some basic skirts and dresses will suffice for males wanting to try wearing skirts or dresses. A basic jean skirt (or maybe some denim dresses) can be a start for males to wear skirts or dresses. Even still, skorts should not be overruled for the skirt appeal.
Feminine heels for males can be equally tough to convince. Those who want to try proper feminine heels will need to find some proper-fitting footwear for such male feet. Males don't need to try to be as sassy as their feminine counterparts with heels. Simple, yet feminine heels can be just as chic for males as even the hottest feminine heels. Even if males want to go with slingback or peep-toe footwear, they should be able to go with those sassy shoes as part of their wardrobe.
Skirts/Dresses and feminine heels will never become a fashion reality and an acceptable reality as long as society can accept such males wearing such fashions. Fashion credits those who want to dress however they please regardless of social thoughts. For any male looking for fashion items to choose from, skirts/dresses and feminine heels should not be overlooked if such items interest such males. Just because males made skirts and heels fashionable long before both became feminine staples doesn't mean they can still be worn even today. Even if for the purpose of offering more options for the fashionable male, skirts/dresses and feminine heels can't hurt. Designers even will need to accommodate such items to suit males in addition to the fashionable female. Either way, it would be refreshing to see many more fashion options offered for males as well as being accepted to wear such items.
Well, thank you for visiting "StyleSpace by JBM!" Care to discuss this topic?
It will be tough for skirts/dresses and feminine heels to be acceptable reality for male fashion, but SHOULD they be? What can be done to make such items acceptable for males to wear?
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